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CopperHead

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#41 14 years ago

This could be just about anything. Yet, experience tells me it's as simple as that she wants to break up because she either found something better or hope to find something better. All women will always break up sooner or later. If the guy doesn't get there first she certainly will. Long lasting relationships doesn't exist anymore and the one that are today doesn't count because they begun at a diffrent era where at least marrige were somewhat more sacred. It looks doubtfull that we're meant to stay together. Just look at the scientific knowledge about the sexual bond in a relationship between man and woman. Men usually wants more and more sex with their partner the longer they stay together whilst women wants the most at the beginning of the relationship and then wants just less and less the longer it prevails. In other words without going into a whole essay here about the details - sexual relationships are selfdestructive.

Lieutenant Hyshkashould i stay friends with her or not? I mean i still care about her[/quote] Don't get fooled by that BS. When women say that they want to stay friends they do so out of two possible reasons. Sometimes it's because they want to dampen the hurt they'd inflict by breaking up but mostly it's because they want to still have you to provide them with something whatever it might be. Don't ever fall into the trap of hope and stick around in the believe that it might change and she'll take you back. If you mean that much she'll come back anyway. You staying as friend will just drain you out. It will just turn into a monotone "you give she take" relationship. Fact of life. [quote= BeeF FlaPs]Ahhh, your first lesson about women. They are all nuts, this you will learn.

SO true unfortunatly! :vikki:




Guns4Hire

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#42 14 years ago

CopperHead Men usually wants more and more sex with their partner the longer they stay together whilst women wants the most at the beginning of the relationship and wants just less and less the longer it prevails.

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You hit the nail on the head there! When sex becomes a planned event it's time to move on to the next one :)




FactionRecon

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#43 14 years ago
Lieutenant HyshkaI don't know what's gonna happen......but things can change for the better, you never know whats gonna happen

If you're thinking that she's going to come running back to you yelling "I'M SORRY FOR WHAT I DID! TAKE ME BACK" Then you are sorely mistaken, and will only lead yourself into more pain when you are dissapointed that it doesn't turn out that way.




Lieutenant Hyshka

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#44 14 years ago

I know, I've got to move on, take it like a man, but i'm gonna try staying friends......nothing special and i'm not hoping for anything




NiteStryker

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#45 14 years ago
FactionReconShe's just like every other girl at this age. They're very resistant to being tied down with someone else, they want the freedom to "explore", if you will, their world and have fun whilke they're at it. And don't even think for ONE MINUTE that the "reason" she gave was the truth. They come up with that stuff days in advance so that they don't have to be logical and realize that what they're doing is stupid.

Seems like the guys know women pretty well here.

I am looking for something semi-serious. I am not looking for a 2 day thing then a hug goodbye. But women want to get every guy they can it seems.




Count Nosferatu

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#46 14 years ago
Μαjïç MushrøøMTraveling by flight can be rather fatiguing, depending on the person and how long the flight is. The previous suggestions always have possibility, but I doubt that it's anything to worry about.

Not as bad as travelling by train. Anyone who's been on the 12 hour Amtrak from NY to Toronto can vouch for that. Even British rail isn't as shit as that. As for the thread... not much I can say that hasn't already said. Move on. Don't even bother putting up the emotional trouble of being friends. Its much less effort to not care. People can bitch all they like about that philosophy but its true for most cases. Look on the bright side. Better she do it now than when you're married with kids.




Guns4Hire

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#47 14 years ago
Count Nosferatu Look on the bright side. Better she do it now than when you're married with kids.

and no assests, lawyers or judges ;)




Count Nosferatu

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#48 14 years ago

Its actually worse in some places if you're a man with kids and your partner leaves you in a cohabilitating relationship (female has exclusive rights over kids).