NuclearFieldMarshall(well this just keeps getting worse and worse) Well, I've had a very... enlightning... discussion with my wife on what happened. This time, she finally opened up -- completely. Indeed, she did trip, but, after asswipe caught her, he held on. Right now she's asleep, so I can get away with this (haha, sneaky me...). She showed me that she had bruises right where the guy "caught" her, and they were most definatly made by someone squeezing their hand very hard. AND, another bruise. This is the one that's really got me going. It's in the shape of a thumb, about 2 inches below her "happy hole." And there's a big red mark about the size of a hand that streches from the bruise around her thigh. Now, this fu*ker's gonna fry. But not by my hand. I have decided to go to the cops about this (tomorrow), and not beat the living hell out of this guy. But, I think I can get him on assault and attempted rape, among other things...
[color=DarkOrchid]Damn, I'm really sorry about all this. You must be really worried about her now, personally i'd keep her home until the cops take him in if not that keep a really close eye on her. I feel horrible for her though, God, imagine what she must have gone through with that. I'd be a wreck. You both have my sympathies, I really hope the justice system comes through for you as well.[/color]
NuclearFieldMarshallGuys, I could you a little help right now! Here's what's going on. My wife decided to put in some over-time at work, and she just came how about 20 minuets ago, sobing, and her clothes were torn in a few places. I calmed her down, and she managed to tell me that when she went to leave, one of her co-workers stopped her in the parking garage, and she broke into tears again. So, I again calmed her down, and she was able to spurt out (direct quote), "...he tried to rape...," and she started sobbing again. Right now, she's in the bathroom; I can still here her crying -- for some reason, she doesn't want me to see her. But right now, I'm fucking furious. This prick tried to rape my wife. THAT'S personal, and not something I'm going to tell the cops (yet). Anyway, I know where this guys lives. And I'm planning on going over to his house and beating the shit out of him. But, I thought of you guys. So, if anyone has an idea of what I could do to this gut, please tell me! I swear, somebody's going to die tomorrow...
Call the Cops and have a rifle handy.
Wanna go Double Dutch?
9th December 2003
err.. no need to bring guns ino this unless he feels like accompanying the guy in prison...
Großadmiral Dönitzerr.. no need to bring guns ino this unless he feels like accompanying the guy in prison...
Not If he lives in the Usa, because Our Legal system is so messed up you can say you have some mental problem or you acted in self-defense and you won't go to jail.
Then this other dude could say the same...
46 and 2, are just ahead of me
23rd September 2004
This won't be easy to get attempted rape. The best you can do is harassment, and in order to get it your wife will have to press charges and will have to be over-emotional in the trial and in an interview, otherwise you won't get a full vote.
Wanna go Double Dutch?
9th December 2003
That is what sucks about a Jury system (we have no Jury system here in the Netherlands), you can play on peoples emotions (with the best or most bad intentions).
KoЯsakoffThen this other dude could say the same...
And that is why its screwed up.
[color=black][color=black]Insanity and self defense have a tendency of being useless in a rape case. That kind of defense can work for a normal person in a murder for vengeance cases because its easy to argue that they were under extreme stress and "snapped", but unless the person is genuinely slap ass crazy, it's hard to convince a jury that he was legally insane at the time of a rape (legally insane in the manner of not knowing right from wrong is usually portrayed in the manner that at the instant of the crime, they didn't know right from wrong and "snapped". The guy who figures out how to do that for a rapist would have to be genius of twice the caliber of Einstein). Also, a jury is generally extremely sympathetic towards a rape victim, and might even regard an insanity defense for someone who is truly insane as BS.[/color] [color=black]My advice: If you get him for attempted rape file a civil suit for sexual harassment and take the bastard for everything he's got. Even if he's found innocent of attempted rape, you could still do this because they aren't mutually exclusive. [/color] [/color]
[color=black]Originally posted by Svendorn
Oh. well I just thought it was pretty odd. Glad to hear it worked out though. [/color][color=black]Actually, you're right. Why the fuck did I decide to go to an internet forum to ask for help on a problem as serious as this? What the hell is the matter with me? Oh, and, thanks.[/color]
Originally posted by Trojan_Ripper I think your wife was having an affair that just got out of hand. I mean her husband spends all his time talking to a computer screen for life’s answers.
Damn man, your wife had just said “rape” to you and you run off to the forum room too see what the guys would do. Don’t do anything; that way your wife will see you for what you are, and leave…. and you won’t be the one coming home next yelling rape with your shirt torn…
That first part -- I ought to beat the shit out of you for that. How fucking dare you! That last part, though... ya. Perhaps you're partly right. I don't even know why I did this? I don't know whether it was from some sort of... emotional reaction or whatever, or if I'm having a stupid moment. Ugh! However, it's not like I have anything better to do (espically this week). You see, I don't go back to college until September, and my boss was kind enough to give me a few weeks off, since I'd been doing so much stuff at work. Unfortunatly, my wife has to work, and put in overtime (asshole boss), so unfortunatly I've been at home (espically this week, as I said).
Originally posted by Beef YOU can't get him on anything, SHE has to press charges for an assault. Keep in mind that is court time and time off work. This is all IF she is telling the truth, Hard to tell from this post. Forget about attempted rape, from what I read here there is no proof. I'm sure there is a lot more to this story...
I used a [bad] figure of speech. I know that I can't do shit (I mean, I could beat the living hell out of this guy, but then again, prison rape doesn't seem too appealing). What a screwed-up legal system we have here in the States.
Also posted by Beef I don't know man this whole story sounds fishy to me. If that were my wife with bruises and she said another guy did it I'd be breaking some limbs right about now, but that's just me. Police are good for nothing in theese cases unless the woman presses charges. So you better find out what the hell is going on.
You know... I'm still having a little trouble with this, and I do agree; I don't think that I've been told everything. And I do intend to find out what's going on (I appreciate what you've posted, since I do have a lot of respect for what you say). Donitz, Flodgy, Karma, EVERYONE, thank you so much for your imput on this. Even though this is screwed-up, I none-the-less appreciate all of your guy's thought's on this. Donitz, Flodgy, you two espically. I owe you both. Thank you for convincing me not to beat the hell out of this guy. *reminds self not to post stuff like this again*