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Sindrevike

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#71 15 years ago

This is fucked up man. Get your ass up and away from the computer. Take a two by four and pay your pal a visit.




NuclearFieldMarshall

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#72 15 years ago
This is fucked up man. Get your ass up and away from the computer. Take a two by four and pay your pal a visit.

Well, if the law doesn't get him, then I'll take your advice. But I need something.... bigger, than a two by four.




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#73 15 years ago

I just read the thread....damn, that's fucked up. Well, just be glad you're not living in South Africa. You go to a police station and tell them you've been raped and they'll basically say "yes, and?" because it happens SO often. I heard about rape every frigging day in the news and on the radio. Anyway, good thing you didn't assault this guy. Smashing the guy's face in would have been my first impulse too, but the consequences are pretty clear.


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#74 15 years ago
NuclearFieldMarshallDonitz, Flodgy, Karma, EVERYONE, thank you so much for your imput on this. Even though this is screwed-up, I none-the-less appreciate all of your guy's thought's on this. Donitz, Flodgy, you two espically. I owe you both. Thank you for convincing me not to beat the hell out of this guy. *reminds self not to post stuff like this again*

Well i personally am always more then willing to help people and support them (its just not tha many people come to me for advice, hehe :( ). No problem at all, Anything that i can do to make somebody else feel better and not do anything stupid that might harm him in the long run makes me feel beter aswell :D. Once more all my support to the your wife and yourself!




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#75 15 years ago

You probaly trust your wife which is a good thing in general... I'm not here to tell you what to, or where to go, just to tell you to look at every angle & every possibility. Think about what could have happened in your head, the type of material the shirt was made of, would it tear easy or would it have to be gripped with intention to tear to rip it. In the parking lot could she have tripped over a concrete block (they usualy exist in outdoor parking lots, but rarely see them in large scale garages) bruising her leg. Thing that can't be explained away by some theoretical nonsense is the bruise near her private.

Admittedly I'd probaly rather then sit down and chat with him, would have hit him over the head with a large object, but it's not about what I would do, rather what one "should do". Going all philosophical here... As has been said above, have her call the police and file a report, then reveiw the security tapes with or without your wife present and then if it turns out to be true which it could be, then turn in the tape to police. Ultimately things like this turn into long drawn out law suits which will take months if not up to 2 years to resolve.

Sorry if I sound a bit cold or cynical. Oh and on a side note, posting this stuff on a forum, isn't exactly the stupidest thing in the world to do, but it certainly isn't the smartest thing to do with your wife knowing about it. Women need privacy for issues like this, and don't like people knowing because it degrades them. Calling up your freinds, close, non blathering freinds, might have been a better course of action. But should one of them open their mouth about it many months later she could feel very hurt by it. But thats just my opinion




Sindrevike

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#76 15 years ago
NuclearFieldMarshallWell, if the law doesn't get him, then I'll take your advice. But I need something.... bigger, than a two by four.

Just a few ideas: Brass knuckles - with spikes if you really want to get mideival Crowbar baseball bat - alluminum or wood; aluminum wont break, wood might. But if it does break you have a sharp spear steel garbage can - Sonny Corleone style Nightstick [color=black]PR-24 side handle baton[/color] ASP collapsible baton Sickle Meat cleaver Chainsaw Nailgun toxic smoke candle Leather whip Flage Mace plastic bag piano wire Golf club Pool cue Shovel Grandma's walker flame thrower magic wand Or if you want a really massive weapon, you can borrow my love shaft. Seriously, if you've already notified the police about this beating the dude to the verge of death isn't the wisest thing. It sure will feel good though. If you haven't beaten the crap out of him by now, you aren't going to in the future. If you've learned anything from this whole thing I hope its that you don't hide behind your computer when shit like this happens.




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#77 15 years ago

This is kinda twitchey, seeing that she didn't want you in the room with her. While it could be a joke, I would not take it that way. She could have the last laugh on you, which is not a big deal. But if you treat it like a joke when it is not. Shit will FLY!

The problem with rape (or attempted rape) is that the person will not want to accept it. Rationalization, denial, and humor are ways to disguise it, ways to keep them from humiliation. It sounds like she is really embarassed by the situation (the attempt and the forum post) and she wanted to get out of it. Do NOT take her excuses. Follow through on it. If she won't go to the cops, then make this guys life miserable.

Things I would do. 1.) Buy Her some Kickass mace. Try to talk to a cop or military guy to get some heavy duty mace, not the cheap store version. This shows that you care for her well being and that you are willing to go that extra yard to keep your family safe. 2.) Get her some flowers. People who don't use forums a lot do not understand that no one knows who you are. She might feel that if you put it on-line that the whole world will know. It is not true, but when you have been in that trauma, the worst case scenerio will always come to mind. 3.) Just be there for her. You don't have to talk about it a lot, but just being there gives her someone to lean on. You will probably have to go through a couple days (if not a week) without video games/tv/internet just so that you can be there for her.

She is stressed out like crazy. Time for you to step in.




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#78 15 years ago

Just want to say one thing. Next time (if) this happens be smart and ask your wife BEFORE you go around and start asking people. Not everybody reacts positive to someone who just starts asking around in forums and such. ;)




NuclearFieldMarshall

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#79 15 years ago

Originally posted by Nederbord

Just want to say one thing. Next time (if) this happens be smart and ask your wife BEFORE you go around and start asking people. Not everybody reacts positive to someone who just starts asking around in forums and such. winkx.gif

Oh, I definatly intend to take your advice.

Originally posted by Tap Seriously, if you've already notified the police about this beating the dude to the verge of death isn't the wisest thing. It sure will feel good though. If you haven't beaten the crap out of him by now, you aren't going to in the future.

If you've learned anything from this whole thing I hope its that you don't hide behind your computer when shit like this happens.

No shit it'd feel good to beat the hell out of this guy! I must say, those are some very interesting ideas. I going to have to remember those winkx.gif. Thanks, Tap. Believe me, I have learned something from this: A) Don't talk about shit like this on an internet forum. B) Don't sit around like an idiot; get off your ass and do something. C) Well, I'm not sure what "C" is, but I'll think of something. Oh, just to point out, after my wife finally got a hold of herself, she actually took a look at what I posted here. And the wierd thing is, she actually agrees with the original idea of why I posted this thread (that being, looking for ideas/help). She's understandably not too happy about the whole thing, though, but, meh. In case anybody still gives a shit, she (happy, Beef?) went to the police, and (surprisingly) they arrested the guy about 4 hours ago. We've already given statements (she's still down there, though, undergoing a physical, at least that's my best guess; nobody's telling me what's going on), and the guy's pending a hearing in about a week. So, knowing the all-American court system, this will take 10 months before this goes to trial, (IF it goes to trial), and another 10 before we get a verdict. Anyway, since I started this whole thing (the thread, I mean), I will finish it. I'll keep you all posted on what's going on (which will take a while). (sorry about these long posts)




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#80 15 years ago

Goodnews! Whatever happens feel free to either bump this thread up when the verdict comes (if it ever comes). I will see to it you won't get killed over it ;).