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Agentlaidlaw

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#1 13 years ago

Teens and sex been bugging me big time. Not long ago me and my girl friend were aguring over about her friend have a child when hes only 15. I don't get it whats the point of even having sex when you dont even have a high school diploma and not having a job or your own house?? You know if you have sex this a big chance of getting the girl pregnet? Then also why don't the fathers do his duty and marry the girl? He did her he should take the duty and support both of them now. Why don't they? Why do they even have sex in the first place? Whats the point? Ohh 30 minutes of pleasure for what 20 years of pain and having your life change big time!




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#2 13 years ago

That is why there is protected sex, it's to prevent unwanted pregnencies/STDS form occuring. For teens it seems that the obsession for sex is it because it's the "cool" thing to do to get laid as fast as you can. I'm a virgin and proud of it, and I'll wait to have sex with the woman I love when I get married. I believe virginity should be something held dear, only to be given up to the person you truly respect and love. Having sex should be an act of love, to show how much you love the other person, rather then just an act of pleasure. Not everyone believes in abstinence, but at the very least, protection should be used if you absolutley HAVE to have sex.




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#3 13 years ago
AgentlaidlawTeens and sex been bugging me big time. Not long ago me and my girl friend were aguring over about her friend have a child when hes only 15.

If I were you I'd be more worried about a male having a child :p. Where biology is concerned, teenagers are naturally driven to having sexual intercourse due to various circumstances, including but not limited to puberty and the associated hormones that accompany it. Hell, if we were to live natural lifespans rather than the dangerously prolonged lifespans we do now, then teenagers would actually be encouraged to have sex. If we only lived until we were 30-40 years old, as we often did in ye olde times, then you'd not only need lots of children but you'd need to start humping pretty early if you had any intention of raising them for very long. Of course things are better now, and people are waiting until they are past 30 (or sometimes even 40) to have children, which is equally ill-advised if you ask me, from a health point of view at least. So with a natural compulsion to have intercourse, and the 90% lack of willpower that nearly every human being on the planet seemingly suffers from these days, it's totally reasonable that teenagers are having, and have always had, sex. Their bodies are telling them to, and they are incapable of resisting. The same as why people are getting fat. The social implications of sex only allows them to be more open about it these days, is all.




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#4 13 years ago
Agentlaidlaw30 minutes of pleasure for what 20 years of pain and having your life change big time!

Well, there are more options nowadays than that. Contraception means that unless they're determined to screw themselves over it's practically impossible for them to do so.




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#5 13 years ago

I don't understand why it bothers you, apart from possible jealousy. Teens have always had sex and they always will. Give 'em a rubber and let 'em go at safely :hump: Who cares...




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#6 13 years ago
NordicvsI don't understand why it bothers you, apart from possible jealousy. Teens have always had sex and they always will. Give 'em a rubber and let 'em go at safely :hump: Who cares...

A beer ror you :beer: Agreed




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#7 13 years ago

Until you experience sex, don't down it because you honestly have no clue why people do it, even at teen years. And if one of your friends has a baby, direct them to an abortion clinic. It is much better than having the baby in the first place.




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#8 13 years ago

Well if two 15 year olds (or even younger, peoplery to hit the bed at he age of 12 now :uhm: ) really want to have sex i can no stop them, i will frown upon them but if they really want to i won't stop them. They should do it wearing protection though, if you manage to end up withpregnant at your 15th you won't get much pity of me but a shaking head and a finger pointing in he general direction of the abortion clinic.




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#9 13 years ago

Abortions are pretty cheap actually, I don't even think they run over 1,000$. That is still pretty expensive, but the cost of a baby at the age of fifteen FAR outways the cost of an abortion. And if you catch the baby in the first trimester I don't even think the abortion cost anymore than 500$. I could be wrong. This is just from one of my friends who had an abortion. She said her moms insurance paid for the operation, but that it was around 500$.




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#10 13 years ago
X-CAnd if one of your friends has a baby, direct them to an abortion clinic. It is much better than having the baby in the first place.

Some people would prefer having a baby in their teens and undergo years of hardship rather than be a murderer.