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NiteStryker

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#1 8 years ago

Saw it on yahoo homepage.

Surprising things men notice about women instantly - Love + Sex on Shine

It's no shocker that women are known for judging others, but did you ever think men might be guilty of it too? It's true...and you might be surprised to learn exactly what they're honing in on. Here are three things he notices the moment you meet.

Your Friends You can work your butt off to come across well—a flattering, flirty outfit, big smile, witty conversation—but you can’t do the same for your friends. Men know this, so if you’re out with the gals, men look at them as representatives of all your personality traits—including the not-so-good ones. “I met a girl who seemed sweet at a bar. We chatted, and she invited me to hang with her friends,” says Stan, 26. “Within 10 minutes, I realized they were all gossipy drama queens, and I bolted.” If your friends aren’t on the same win-him-over page as you are, head to your own corner of the bar.

Your Laugh Guys pride themselves on being funny, so they look for ladies who can appreciate their sense of humor. However, there’s such a thing as laughing too much. “I went out for drinks with one girl who cracked up at everything I said, even if it wasn’t funny,” says Adam, 27. “It got on my nerves so much that I made an excuse to leave early.”

Cell-Phone Usage You’re having a great chat with a guy when you get a text. What you do next—ignore it or write a response before putting the phone on the table so it’s easier to get to next time—tells him how you’d treat him in the future. “I met a girl at a coffee shop, and within 15 minutes, her phone rang,” says Seth, 33. “She just let it go to voice mail, which made me feel like, at that moment, I was her first priority.”

I lol'd at "Tits & Ass" being completely omitted.




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#2 8 years ago

Because thats not surprising for men to notice about women? We all know we notice their parts. Plus the article title is surprising things men notice about women after all....




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Indeed the "Has the person a cute/sexy/attractive face" followed by "a good body" are rather obvious for both men and women. Though I can't say I care too much about boobs, aslong as they aren't totally flat or melon sized, though even that doesn't matter t much if she got a pretty face, nice ass and is kinda cute.

Though the points brought up in the article aren't too suprising either, if the friends you hang out with look like they belong to a certain group/style/personality, chanches are that you are the same. It's no garantee ofcourse.

The laugh... maybe. I guess it's more the "err... (s)he's kinda weird... retreat!" experience you get.

As for the phone, I'd agree that it ain't nice to direct your attention elsewhere though if you're have been hanging out with the person for quite some time (an hour, hours) it seems fair enough to handle a quick phonecall or text message.




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#4 8 years ago

Not really pub material.




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#5 8 years ago

That ultimately depends on how people respond to it. You can just take it at face value or you can use it to discuss what you think romance is all about - whatever. Where it goes depends in large part on what sort of tone is expected/wanted in the responses.

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That said I think those are just things people notice about others in general. Even as far as friendship goes if someone breaks off talking to me to answer their phone, without even bothering to explain in some way that they're actually justified in doing so, I'll just walk away. Fuck them. If you hang around with a load of cunts I'm not going to want to be friends with you either - what for? It's obvious the sort of person you are by the company you choose to keep.

People over complicate the issue. Getting a woman is just like getting a friend and then spending a ridiculous amount of time with them. It works by the same sort of standards, it uses the same sort of patterns of behavior.




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#6 8 years ago
Warforger;5302755Not really pub material.

Well then move it....

I think something I notice (even tho I am married now, I still notice it with my wife) is how effectively someone manages their time.




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#7 8 years ago

I'm never sure how to look at that. As long as someone accomplishes their goals, be those academic or industrial, how do you measure how they use their time? A friend and I were talking yesterday and the point came up that you could tell the smart people in university because they did no studying at all and were still there. That the most diligent were also the most stupid.




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#8 8 years ago
NiteStryker;5302718I lol'd at "Tits & Ass" being completely omitted.

They put everything but the most important... :p




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#9 8 years ago

The boobs and the gap !

hahaha pub sluts always get noticed hahaha




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In regards to the 'tits and ass', thats more of an appearance trait than it is of personality. This article seems to be on about people and their mental personality, rather than what they actually look like, and how short their skirt is.

Obviously everyone has a different opinion of what is attractive, and what is unattractive, though its pretty safe to say that there are always going to be the naturally attractive, and naturally unattractive people around.

Admiral Donutz;5302733Though I can't say I care too much about boobs, aslong as they aren't totally flat or melon sized, though even that doesn't matter t much if she got a pretty face, nice ass and is kinda cute.[/quote]I'd probably agree here, though am more inclined to go with the boobs than the ass. I would agree though, that too small / big isn't appealing.

Admiral Donutz;5302733Though the points brought up in the article aren't too suprising either, if the friends you hang out with look like they belong to a certain group/style/personality, chanches are that you are the same. It's no garantee ofcourse.[/quote]The way I look at it, with a woman, she is going to have to share some of your interests, and have things in common with your friends. If she is, shall we say similar to you and your friends, you're likely get along a lot better. You get some people that you see together, and just don't seem to have anything in common.

[QUOTE=Admiral Donutz;5302733]As for the phone, I'd agree that it ain't nice to direct your attention elsewhere though if you're have been hanging out with the person for quite some time (an hour, hours) it seems fair enough to handle a quick phonecall or text message.

I'm not so sure about this. If you're on a date or something, and you get a text, and you decide to answer that text, it could come across as a bit rude, such as saying "well yeah, you're boring me, I'm going to reply to this as a break". Equally, its like people who check their phones all the time. Doesn't send the right message. Of course I wouldn't say ignore the phone call or text, if its a text, it can always be read then replied too later, if its a phone call, it doesn't take two minutes to say "can I call you back later".

[QUOTE=jackripped;5303266]hahaha pub sluts always get noticed hahaha

Quoted for truth only.




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