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#1 9 years ago

So, I know that there are some parents on the forum. And a lot of adults. If you had a 14-16 year old, would you rather that they had unprotected sex or do drugs (alcohol included) when I say drugs I don't mean the hard stuff like PCP, Meth, Cocaine and heroin, I mean LSD, Marijuana, Mushrooms and alcohol. I personally wouldn't mind much about drugs, but only if it was in a safe environment with all the munchies they would need:). Sex can be more life changing, which in my opinion is a major downside. Drugs are a little more illegal though. So what say you?




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#2 9 years ago

Oh, drugs, definitely. I'd be disappointed if they didn't sneak alcohol and weed and so on really; people who follow the rules too closely are going to get screwed over the minute they step outside the home. You've got to approach which rules you follow with a certain pragmatic mindset. If they went around having unprotected sex I'd think they were idiots, the risk is somewhat greater, but drugs? That's just natural rule breaking, a perfectly healthy skill for a kid to learn.




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#3 9 years ago

Why not both? I'll never be a parent so the mistakes some suburban punk makes means fuckall to me. :)

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#4 9 years ago

Jeffro;4905791Why not both? I'll never be a parent so the mistakes some suburban punk makes means fuckall to me. :)

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Yeah I shoulda put in an option for that.




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#5 9 years ago

I'd go for both, but I lean on sex, because no matter what, they'll have sex, and I feel its a lot safer then taking up smoking, plus it at least is a redeemable activity. Of course, if my daughter gets pregnant, I'd sit her down, explain that she can either abort, give up for adoption, or keep it, and the consequences involved. After that, its up to her.

As for drugs, if they smoke I'd just be like "Whatever you want, but when you're dying an incredibly painful death, its your fault." For drinking, Imma be sharing beers with them as soon as I can xD. And for weed, meh, just don't do it around me, and I'm cool.




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#6 9 years ago

My kids will never need to worry about it. I’m much more scarier than jail.




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#7 9 years ago

For the lighter drugs, I'd go with that... but when it gets heaver I would switch to sex. Don't scare me yet! My daughter is only 5 weeks old.




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#8 9 years ago

All these kids need is to grow up with a hard-core Irish dad. I still remember my oldest brother (15 at the time) coming home with an earring in his ear. My dad was at the dinner table with us boys (I was about 8 or 9) talking, then he looks at my brother Joe and makes a comment about something stuck in his ear, my brother didn’t say anything, my dad goes, “huh, what is that?” reaches up to check as if he is concerned then rips the damn thing out my brothers earlobe. Looks at it, and goes “huh, that’s what I thought”. Looks at my brother who is crying in agony and tells him when he is done screaming like a woman to go clean himself up. Needless to say, none of the rest of us ever wanted to get an earring. His prep talk on sex was enlightening too. He didn’t give a shit if we had sex, but if we ever got a girl pregnant…he’s saying this as he lays his .38 on the kitchen counter – ‘enough said, lots of sex but made damn sure I didn’t ever nock a girl up – ski/fuck – pull. :eek:




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#9 9 years ago

I missed the unprotected part of the sex option, so I'd change mine to drugs. Unprotected sex is far too risky for young kids to be having. Pregnancy, AIDs, and other STDs could fuck you up royally. I don't care about drugs at all, though if my kid ever started doing Heroin or some other hard shit like that I'd try to get him some help, but failing that he's gone at 18.




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#10 9 years ago

Intelligent people wouldnt start in the first place.

Somewhat intelligent people do it a few times, realize its stupid, and move on.

Really stupid dumbfux have unprotected sex and deal with the results for at least 18 years.

Id say gun to my head, unprotected sex. Cuz if they are stupid, they pay for it and its not illegal. They just deal with STD or pregnancy. Drugs have so many other effects.