I messed up with my friend. How do I make it right? 94 replies

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Forum Martyr

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#1 9 years ago

I am in college and have gotten a friend I often hang out with. She is just great in every way and I kind of really like her, but I have not mustered the courage to really initiate any kind of romantic relationship.

The first time it happened was when we were watching a documentary together and it was cold. She brought a blanket and said she did not have two so I would have to come under. We sat there together and sitting next to her just felt so great. She is kind of quiet, shy and reserved and so am I so we did not do anything other than cuddle a little. Afterwards I had to use her toilet because I was ready to blow and just had to do it or she would most certainly have noticed my erection. You can only tuck it away for so long.

Well that was no one time occurrence. It has happened quite a lot since that and sometimes it has not even been provoked by her sitting next to me. So clumsy as I am I decided yesterday to tell her all about it. How I'm incredibly horny when I'm over and she's near me and that it eventually gets so bad that I have to masturbate in her toilet.

I had told her all of it after a few beers and she kind of went completely silent. She usually texts me every day, but today there has been nothing. I am a little worried that I may have lost a good friend because I could not keep my shit together yesterday.




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#2 9 years ago

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"I'd shush her zephyr." ~ Zephyr.



Schofield Advanced Member

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#3 9 years ago

Quick, ask Destroyer for relationship advice!




Polska

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#4 9 years ago

Look at it this way, you may have lost a very good friend but you have also just gotten your very first restraining order.




Schofield Advanced Member

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#5 9 years ago

Crumbs, did you tell her she makes you masturbate?




NiteStryker

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#6 9 years ago
Schofield;5470731Quick, ask Destroyer for relationship advice!

Best suggestion evar.

If she quits hanging out with you because she knows she turns you on shes a blue-ballin bitch. A chic should be flattered that her mere presence gives a guy wood.




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#7 9 years ago

I feel bad now....guy comes in asking for help with srs biznezz and gets nothing but spam in return....

Crumbs you really should have posted this somewhere else. Somewhere people like Scho and nerd don't frequent.




NiteStryker

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#8 9 years ago

Well what the hell do you expect? Its an obvious situation. Dude gets hard being around a girl and now the girl is being a bitch about it. If she was a real girlfriend, she woulda acted like everything was normal, and the next time they were together, she woulda gone down on him.




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#9 9 years ago

I'm not disagreeing there. But telling her that, especialy the bit about what you do in her bathroom, was INCREDIBLY stupid and highly inappropriate, if anything you should just have told her you "have feelings for her" or some such thing.




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#10 9 years ago

You mean telling girls you masturbate to them turns them off? This would explain a lot about my current situation.


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